Our sub communication is the way we say something.
This is influenced by tonality, emphasis, tempo, volume, body language, and more.
These things are what tells people how to interpret the words we say.
It lets us use things such as irony or sarcasm. We can use it to emphasize what’s important and what’s not. And we can use it to increase our influence ove others.
Good sub communication leads to fewer misunderstandings. Less confusion and uncertainty. And more creativity, connection, and comfort.
Master communicators master their sub communication. And if you want to increase your communication skills it’s one of the first things you should pay some attention to.
Take a look at this video where I demonstrate how the exact same sentence can mean 7 different things and share how you can start improving your own skills.
So now that you know, start paying attention to your own sub communication throughout your days.
Practice it. Play with it. Have fun with it.
See how good you can get at expressing yourself in different ways by simply emphasizing different words. By consciously using tempo and tonality. Or by using your body language to change the meaning of what you're saying.
The possibility are endless – so go play!
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Hi, I'm TJ Guttormsen.
Since 2009 I’ve coached clients ranging from Olympic gold medalists and billionaires, to people who simply want more out life.
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