A simple trick to be more convincing.

Become twice as convincing as before by using this simple technique, just make sure you do things in the right order, because most people don't.

There are many reasons you might want to convince someonethat you’re right, and many ways to do it.

But there’s one little technique that is so simple thatanyone can do it in almost any situation.

The trick is simple. We first state a fact that we know weboth agree on, and then we make our argument.

(Most people do this the other way around, which doesn'twork half as well!)

Let’s say that you want to suggest to a friend that the twoof you should go on a vacation together. But, you suspect that he'll behesitant to say yes.

Before you make your suggestion, take a moment to think ofsomething relevant to the situation that he’ll agree with. Perhaps the two ofyou tend to come up with great business ideas when you spend time together.

So you might say, “you know how we always end up with greatmoney-making ideas when we’ve been together for a while?”

Once they’ve confirmed that yes, that’s true,you go on. “Well, I was thinking that since we both have time off next month,we should go on a vacation together. We'd have a fun trip. And just imagine theideas we'd come up with if we spent a whole week together!"

The psychology of persuasion.

As mentioned, most people do this the other way around. Theyfirst make their suggestion – then try to back it up with a factual argument.
 
So they say, “we should go on a vacation together." And when the otherperson hesitates, they follow up with, "come on! Just imagine the greatideas we'd come up with!"
 
People usually just smile and shrug their shoulders at this, since they seethat’s it’s an obvious ploy to try to talk them into something.
 
And while they might also consciously do that when we start with the fact andthen make the suggestion, something interesting happens in their subconscious.
 
You see, when their subconscious mind hears a fact it agrees with first, it starts to trust you.
 
It knows that what you just said is true and reliable, and goes into“agreeing-mode” rather than “discussion-mode”. So whatever you say next willsound more true, more reliable, or more agreeable.
 
But it is important to note that you have to be assertive, both when you statethe fact – and when you follow it up with your suggestion. If you don’t, itwill lose most of its effect.
 
Studies have shown that convincing someone with the fact-then-suggestion methodcan be up to twice as effective as the other way around. And even moreeffective than if we don’t include any agreed-upon facts at all.
 
So make a habit out of doing this when you want to convince people to agreewith you. If you do, you'll soon get people on your side far more often.

Hi, I'm TJ Guttormsen.

Since 2009 I’ve coached clients ranging from Olympic gold medalists and billionaires, to people who simply want more out life.

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